Hi people this is i kind of spin on another thread (no bond) my pastel male is a bit wierd with me like everytime i go to get him out of his viv he will ball up and hiss he has never struck at me or anything (yet) but the wierd thing is as soon as my partner goes up to get him out he is completly fine can they sense a hormonal differance or somthing like that between men and women or is he just being a flirt with the ladys :) ive never hurt him or anything like that and my spider is fine if any1 gets him out so i find it kind of strange also after he is actualy out he is fine he comes straight out of his balled up state and does what i expect every royal does
My female is the same she loves me but not my gf lol. Not sure why it happens though I'm guessing its probably something. To do with scents like there might be sdomething in your deodriant or aftershave he don't like or if you are a lot bigger than ur missus then he probably aints as intimidated by her
Yea ive hears about the confidence thing but i am confident with him im not scared of him if he hisses i just pick him up anyway so i dont know lol and i never evan thought about my aftershave putting him off il try not put any on tomorrow an se if that helps :)